Slaps, punches, kicks, choking, abuse with objects, burns, gunshot wounds, knife wounds…
Destruction of self-esteem, threats (e.g. with death, with abduction of children, with suicide), blackmail, psychological terror, constant control, stalk, persecution, denial of recognition, insult, humiliation, “crazy”;, withdrawal/withdrawal of love (until the desired behavior is achieved)
any violation of the sexual self-determination, even within partnerships, includes sexualized, condescending and humiliating comments, forcing sexual acts (intimate touching, kissing, etc.) or certain sexual practices, as well as rape
Isolation, control of external contacts, contact bans, confinement, Prohibition of employment, threat of violence by other family members and friends, targeted violence against pets as a means of blackmail and intimidation.
Reasons for the violence are not sought by the offender in themselves, but in externalcircumstances (e.g. alcohol consumption, difficulties at work) or the partner (“they provoked me”) the fault of the others.
Threat of violence against children and other family members, taking children hostage, using children as messengers in the event of separation/divorce and to establish contact with the ex-partner
Increase dependence on the partner; exploit one’s own advantages, existing inequalities, better position/status (disability, Residence status, woman-man, state of health, care situation…)
Deprivation of income or maintenance, sole access and control of the offender over joint income, accumulating debts and passing them on to others